Change is Hard
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Not to sound too “Methodist”, my childhood was sprinkled with church while others had their lives immersed in church. In other words, our family was classic C&E church attender: C hristmas and E aster. Upon college graduation, I longed to renew the spark that had faded during the previous four years. After returning home, I chose to join Shalimar United Methodist church in the late fall of 1984. It was an effort to “clean up” and “grow up” and acknowledge God’s nudging and accept that I did have an unattended spark that needed fanning. After joining the church…shortly, and when I say shortly, I mean14 days later, I was engaged to the associate pastor. At the risk of sounding cliche’ “it was love at first sight.” We were married on May 4, 1985 at Shalimar UMC and this years makes 29 years of marriage.
As a United Methodist I learned about Prevenient Grace early in my journey as a christian. John Wesley believed that prevenient grace is with us from birth, preparing us for new life in Christ. Prevenient means to come before. Wesley believed that God places a little spark of divine grace within us that enables us to recognize and accept our conversion and new life in Christ. Without that spark or desire for the hole in your soul to be filled with God, I would not have found the fulfilling life I am living.
Shalimar was where I learned more about my relationship with God and I was nurtured and was shown so much grace by the congregation. I was rough around the edges and because they loved my husband and their Lord, they loved me. My faith grew, bloomed, and bore fruit because of the cultivating that occurred that year.
As a United Methodist pastor’s wife I am married to my husband and his calling. When he was ordained, among many things, he agreed to be itinerate and he is faithful to his calling and to the United Methodist Church’s itineracy. We have been blessed to serve congregations in Shalimar, Pensacola, and Montgomery.
We recently learned that we will be moving. Our new church home will be back where it all began. Never in my wildest dreams would I have thought we would be back home. What a blessing. The popular song keeps running over and over in my head, “I’m coming home, I’m coming home. Tell the world that I’m coming home..”
Today, I am thankful for God’s prevenient grace. He always goes ahead of us knowing we have the choice to follow. Philip has always answered the call to where he has been asked to go. Never questioning. Always believing that His plan was above anything we can orchestrate. I am grateful I am married to such a Godly man and I am happy to follow him wherever he serves, especially when I’ll be following him HOME!
Well, Mrs. McVay, I’m excited for you, but we sure will miss you! Keep up the blog. It’s fun to read!
It’s beautiful. I love you!
M
On Wed, Mar 19, 2014 at 5:25 PM, Computer vs Paper wrote:
> karenmcvay posted: “The following post has nothing to do with > Computers or Paper. You have just received your PSA (public service > announcement) in case you are expecting a post on technology or > scrapbooking. If you just want to read my daily musings, then following > along..”
What??? I am sad. I am very sad.
Anita Ellis Sixth Grade Geography and Bible Trinity Presbyterian School
“Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves.” Philippians 2:3 Senior Verse 2013-2014
On Wed, Mar 19, 2014 at 5:25 PM, Computer vs Paper wrote:
> karenmcvay posted: “The following post has nothing to do with > Computers or Paper. You have just received your PSA (public service > announcement) in case you are expecting a post on technology or > scrapbooking. If you just want to read my daily musings, then following > along..”
We will miss you!! Having been a preacher’s daughter, I know how it is to pull up roots ever so often – sad to leave the friends we have come to love, happy to have made the new. What a blessing that you will be “re”newing friendships!
Thank goodness for technology – our world has become so much smaller than when I was a teen and moving to a new town or community. Not much communication with old friends except occasionally a phone call or snail mail. Now, our friends are just a click or two away!!
I am pretty awful about keeping up on Facebook – seems like I stay so busy in the moment I seldom have time to sit down and “surf”. Maybe when I don’t have a teen at home anymore – Happy/Sad! I do hope everything goes easy and smooth for you in the transition. Thanks for spurring us “old timers” along in the world of technology!!
Sandi
On Wed, Mar 19, 2014 at 5:25 PM, Computer vs Paper wrote:
> karenmcvay posted: “The following post has nothing to do with > Computers or Paper. You have just received your PSA (public service > announcement) in case you are expecting a post on technology or > scrapbooking. If you just want to read my daily musings, then following > along..”
We’re going to miss you, Karen, but I’m happy that you’re getting to go home to a place you love.
Well said, my friend! I will certainly miss our “church” talks and your help in all things technology based. You never made me feel dumb! I know this appointment will be a great one and maybe you just might get a visit from me when I am in Crestview.
Beautiful writing. Please start that memoir! I hope the people in Shalimar get to read this and see the lovely woman returning to them. They are favored to be receiving you and Philip back. I’m going to miss you:(
I can’t believe you are moving!! But, I know you and Philip are thrilled to be going home! Trinity will definitely miss your talent, and I will miss my friend. Hope this weekend went well! I’ll talk to you after spring break.
Jill C. Bryan Director Of Marketing & Communications Trinity Presbyterian School
Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility count others more significant than yourselves. Phil. 2:3 2014 Senior Class Verse
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YAY! To coming back where it all began:) So glad I found your blog!
It will be great to get back to the coast and near my good ole beach buddies…hope to meet you half way for some fun in the sun!